All About Showers: Bridal
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Message Board
  • Who should host a bridal shower?
  • How many people should be invited?
  • Who should be invited?
  • When should the shower be held?
  • How does one throw a co-ed shower?
  • What should the invitations look like?
  • What information should be included in the invitations?
  • When should the invitations be mailed?
  • When should guests RSVP by?
  • Should the shower be a surprise?
  • |What order should events happen at the shower?
    There are many variations on showers, but we have devised a general "schedule" for bridal showers. You can add/remove any part and re-order it to your liking.
    • Greet Guests - serve light appetizers
    • After all or almost all guests have arrived, go around the room and have each guest introduce themselves and identify how they know the bride.
    • Play 2-4 Shower Games. It is good to play games at the beginning as ice-breakers. Remember some guests may not know *anyone* but the bride.
    • Let everyone go get whatever food may be available and then once everyone has been served, the bride can begin to open her gifts. Be sure to have someone write down each gift and who it is from. It will make sending thank-you notes a lot easier.
    • People chat and usually leave a few at a time. Make sure the bride gets to say goodbye to everyone and the hostess thanks the person for attending. If the hostess has shower favors, they should give this to the guest now.
  • How long should the shower last?
  • Does a shower have to have games?
  • What are some good shower games?
  • What food should be served at the shower?
  • Are shower favors for guests necessary?
  • Are there any good books on planning a shower?